Can you just replace a wedding ring…she still has it, she still wears it… but it is gold and the new style is silver or plat.
Can you just replace it or should I find a way to incorporate the diamonds from the original wedding band?
Is replacing it, because we are in a different place financially OK, or should I just add to it, or leave it alone and buy something else entirely?
Remember, she is wearing it, not you. This can be a difficult road to travel. She may want to change/upgrade, then again she may not. You need to include her in the process.