My girlfriend and I haven’t had sex since the day before she gave birth to our child. She says the reason is because I am not nice to her. I do everything for her and beyond. Sometimes I can say things that are mean or raise my voice. It has been over 1 year since we have had sex. We have touched each other 3 times in that year. What canI do to get her to have sex again?


Hi Gary,
It’s possible that her hormones are off. Counseling may also be a good try. Talk to her so the two of you can choose route will be best to go. Let her know that you both are a team and you will work on this together.