Fighting/No show of affection

Q

Hi LaTeace,
I need some advice on my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been dating 3 1/2 years now and we have been fighting more than ever. Its anything, our dogs (we dont have kids), cleaning the house, yard work, anything. He is very much a push over sort of guy and I am not. He does not stand up for himself at all and thats another one of our many fights. He shows me no affection at all. No “I love you” anymore, no kisses or hugs, no cute dates, he does not tell me im pretty anymore, ect. We have talked about this and all he says is “I do tell you these things”. I want to feel like he still loves me. We are very close to breaking it off. I just dont know what to do anymore.

A

Hi Michelle,

You’re just two different types of people. He likes the way he is. You don’t. You like strength. It’s time to move on to people that appreciate exactly who each of you are.