Emotional State


Hi Lateace,

For the better part of two years I was involved in a long distance relationship with a women whom I loved with all of my heart. Towards the end of the relationship, there was a drop in our communication which I thought was the key to us having any chance at succeeding. When I attempted to get things back to where they needed to be she claimed that she was not emotionally stable enough for a relationship right now.

I’ve spent the last few months trying to figure out what that means. What does a women mean when she says that?

Thanks for your response.


You can’t attribute that statement from her as a coming from all women because that came from her and how she’s feeling right now. It seems as though there are things going on in her life that she’s not willing to share. It sounds as though she’s going through a very difficult time. She has to take care of herself before she can deal with anything or anyone else. Ask her what she’s going through. Maybe she’ll talk about it. Maybe she’s not ready. Only she can answer what’s really happening with her.