I CANT BELIEVE I FOUND THIS WEBSITE!! I met the love of my life almost five years ago. My boyfriend Pat Jones is the most amazing person I have ever known. We both realized very quickly that we didn’t know what love was until we got together. For the past 3 years I have been very sick. I had to leave my job. I have had unbearable pain in my left side for over 3 years. I have had no insurance so it has been a nightmare. Most doctors didn’t want to help me at all. Some told me I was crazy. Some even told me I MUST have been sexually abused and the pain is all in my head. I ended up having 3 laparoscopies and 3 colonoscopies.
This was a lot for a shy 25 year old. I was misdiagnosed with Crohn’s disease and endometriosis. My boyfriend was the only one who always believed in me. He took care of me constantly and paid full price for all of my very expensive meds. I don’t know how he did it. He is a waiter and a struggling musician. He has gone in to debt paying for all of my meds. He never complained once. He has been so sweet and supportive. He never doubted that I was in pain. He has said so many times he wants us to be married but he is so worried he will never have enough money to buy me a ring. I told him to get me a fake diamond. He said he could never do that. I told him I don’t care. The only thing I said that I wanted was for it to be silver or white gold (or platinum -ha ha!) I feel awful for draining him financially.
I finally was diagnosed properly in March. I have multiple sclerosis. The entire left side of my body is now numb. My short term memory is horrible. The pain is still in my left side. I walk with a cane. I also have knifelike pains in my head. Pat still has not ever left my side. 2 days after I was diagnosed Pat’s father died of pancreatic cancer. It has been crazy. I hate to see Pat so sad. He still amazes me. He only missed one day of work for the funeral because he knew he couldn’t afford it. Pat has been trying his hardest to get out of debt.
The reason I would love for someone to donate a ring to us is because I know it is important to Pat for me to have a nice ring. It would kill me to see him go further in to debt because of me once again. I swear to you all of this is true. I honestly wouldn’t care if I did not have a real diamond. I know our love is real and that is what is most important. My Mother was going to give me her ring after my father died and she got remarried but someone broke into their house and stole the ring along with everything else in the house. I really would love for my dream to come true.
Pat has helped me so much. We won’t be able to afford a wedding but it sure would be amazing if you could help with a ring. I hope to God I am understanding this adopt a diamond program right. If there is anyway you could help me I would be the happiest girl on earth.